About me

Hello! I’m Hetty

I write Still Growing to share the quiet, ongoing lessons my garden is teaching me — about patience, care, and the slow work of becoming.

After working as a gardener and now garden designer alongside people like Scott Melville, Sarah Eberle and now Butter Wakefield, I’ve come to see gardening not just as a skill, but as a way of understanding life. I’ve learnt a lot — and I’m still learning.

This newsletter is for anyone who finds meaning in tending to things that grow slowly — whether that’s a garden, a life, or something in between. Through gentle stories and reflections from my own patch of earth, I hope to offer a moment of stillness, and perhaps a small reminder that you’re not growing alone.


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“Hetty you start my day off so positively 🥹🥰”

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“Thank you SO much for the meaningful reminders”

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Rae

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“I feel very peaceful reading your thoughts. It’s so true that we as gardeners get something meaningful out of each season! ❤️”

Mary-Ann

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“Beautiful ….reminding us of the power of nature ☀️💗🍃”

Marianne Ellman

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“So true – most things that are worthwhile take time. I love your content!”

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“Dear Hetty, can you imagine that I even breathe more calmly just by looking at this ❤️”

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“Hetty my type of therapy is very much the same as yours. Happy gardening 💚❤️”

Jane Thompson

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“Oh Hetty you have pulled at my heart strings 😢 absolutely beautiful, thank you”

Lisa Jones

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“I can completely relate to this 🙌”

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“This is so unbelievably poignant and resonates for me so much currently ❤️ thank you”

Kelly Rimmer

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“Wow… that is beautiful! Thank you for teaching me this. I’ll pass it onto my children”

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“This is the first time I’ve seen my thoughts on mental health. Love your content ❤️”

Saryn Muldrow

@flowers_by_muldrow

“I am so glad I just found you. I love your positive thinking. Thanks for passing it along. 💗🍃”

Jill

@thefluffyswan

“Makes me stop and think, Hetty, and that’s good. For me it’s often too much time doing and not enough being; your content is excellent for giving me some perspective! 💕🤗”

Marian

@marians_flower_garden